Family members hear these words spoken by the loved one diagnosed with cancer. Friends struggle with friends who voice the same words.’
We hear the words spoken of the person who has maintained a healthy and active life: why him? Why her? Cancer, strikes fear in our hearts, for ourselves and our loved ones. Once cancer arrives, everything changes.
The advances being made in cancer research gladden our hearts. We all know of people living normal and happy lives having overcome this disease or in successful remission.
Just walking around George Town last week, I encountered a lady who has been in great health for over seven years now since her challenge with breast cancer. She said how ‘in an instant’ everything in her life changed – priorities shifted, perspective changed and each day became a treasured gift. Oh that we could all seal this knowledge in our hearts and learn to ‘number our days’ and to make the most of them.
Ask the person diagnosed with cancer. They may tell you to stop the stressing, the anxiety and the rushing, and learn to live in the moment. They may tell you to always think of good things. There are gems in life that my friends and family with cancer are teaching me. I share them with you below:
• Develop an attitude of faith and hope. With that, you have a positive foundation.
• Research and become informed. Take an active role in your recovery.
• Give yourself things to look forward to. A walk with a friend on the beach; a game of golf with the guys; a vacation; a diving trip after treatment.
• Find a devoted person with whom you can share your feelings.
• Talk about what is happening to you; share and know you are not alone.
• Renew your spiritual life for refreshment, peace and support.
• Follow guidelines for healthy living…do your part.
• Develop good communication with your oncologist and local physician. Help them to help you.
• Enjoy each day and each moment.
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For more information and support contact the Center for Advancement in Cancer Education at www.beatcancer.org.
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